Eight years ago, my partner told me: "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." She wanted to see other people. We broke up and got back together five times. She stonewalled me and moved to another city.

I threw everything at it. $18,000 on therapy. Five years of books and programs. Nothing worked.

Then it hit me. That radiance she had at the beginning? Gone. But only with me. Everywhere else, she still had it.

I was the common denominator in every failed relationship.

Her silence wasn't peace. It was fear. Fear of my reactions. Fear of triggering another fight. Without realizing it, I'd conditioned her to associate me with disappointment.

She wasn't leaving because of our problems. She was leaving because there was no safety to express them.

That realization changed everything.

I stopped scrambling and started rebuilding from the ground up. Safety first. Everything else second.

That's how I developed the five pillar Relationship Mountain system.

Today, we have the relationship I once thought was impossible. Not just strong, but anti-fragile. Every challenge that should have broken us has pulled us closer instead.

And I've spent the last seven years helping thousands of others do the same.